Second Wedding Etiquette On Different Topics
June 17, 2009 by Francina · Leave a Comment
Etiquette is basically the “rules” set by society to do things a certain way that is acceptable to all. In this post we will take a look at different aspects of the correct etiquette for second weddings.
1. With a second wedding it is assumed that the couple already
has most of the items necessary for running a household and
therefore it is not considered correct etiquette to register for
gifts. Having said that it has become quite common to
give gifts for encore weddings.
Your friends may feel they want to give you something anyway
and you can indeed register for gifts like for your first wedding.
You may want to specify themes like art, linen or any
other area you may have a need.
2. The same etiquette applies to a bridal shower for
second weddings. A great idea for a second
wedding shower is to ask for items to stock the liquor cabinet
like glasses, ice buckets, shakers or a favorite bottle of
liquor which you can all enjoy together at some later date!
3. Next we will look at the correct etiquette on the cost
of a second wedding. You should not ask your
parents to pay for the wedding since they presumably already
paid for your first wedding. If they offer to help out it is okay
to accept.
You and your partner should discuss all the expenses in detail
and determine who will pay for what. Another way to do this
is to split all the expenses and pay equal amounts since you
are both getting married. I find the Wedding Cost Estimator
quite helpful.
Hopefully these rules on etiquette for second weddings helped to clarify some issues for you. You can read more about second wedding etiquette here.
Etiquette And Ideas For Planning A Second Wedding Ceremony
June 8, 2009 by Francina · Leave a Comment
One of the first choices you will have to make if you are planning your second wedding will be if you want a traditional, religious or civil ceremony. There are many ideas and etiquette for second weddings nowadays and any of these will be acceptable.
In this fourth post in the series on Second Weddings, we’ll focus on The Ceremony. The first was about Planning a Second Wedding, the second on Announcing the Engagement, and the third about The Invitations.
Although the person conducting the ceremony will play an important role in putting the ceremony together you will be able to put your own personal spin on it. Perhaps you do not want a traditional wedding but want to make a few subtle changes. It is often refreshing to change things a bit. It will keep your guests interested and prevent them from becoming bored.
These are some things you will have to think about regarding The Ceremony:
1. Music
2. Literature, poetry or readings from the Bible
3. The processional or entrance of the bride and groom or bridal party
4. Wedding vows (more about this in the next post)
5. Exchanging of rings or gifts
6. Attendants to sign the marriage register
7. Lighting the unity candle or similar ceremony
8. That first kiss 
9. The recessional or leaving the church
Remember that this is only a guide. You can mix things up and add your personal touch. It is your wedding and you certainly do not have to repeat what has been done before. Collect etiquette and ideas for second weddings from different sources to provide more options.
Ideas And Etiquette For Planning A Second Wedding: Invitations
June 3, 2009 by Francina · Leave a Comment
You are getting a second chance to plan a wedding that suits your relationship, personalities and style. Make sure you gather ideas and information about the etiquette for planning a second wedding. This post will cover the details of the invitations.
This is the third post in this series about Second Weddings. The first was about Planning a Second Wedding and the second about Announcing Your Engagement..
Firstly you have to decide who will be invited to the wedding. Of course you can invite anybody you want but the deciding factor will probably be your budget.
I would advise against inviting ex-spouses or former out-laws (just kidding!) even if you are on good terms. Because of your previous ties they may get melancholy and make other guests uncomfortable which may spoil your special day.
Etiquette for announcing a second wedding is pretty much the same as for the first. It is commonly done by the couple nowadays but the parents can make the announcement if they wish.
The norm is to use heavy card stock for formal weddings, verbal invitations for informal events and any of an enormous array of invitations for semi-formal occasions. The same etiquette applies to second weddings.
You can find samples of wording for second wedding invitations hosted by the couple at http://www.idotaketwo.com/invitation_1.html
or if it is hosted by the parents at http://www.idotaketwo.com/invitation_2.html
and if it is hosted by the couple’s children at http://www.idotaketwo.com/invitation_3.html.
Even if you do not want gifts please do not say that on the invitation. This implies that you were expecting gifts. This is not considered correct etiquette but you can convey the message by word of mouth or by mentioning it on your wedding website if you have one. These can be created easily and is a great way to share your whole happy story with others.
As you can see there definitely are some differences between the etiquette for planning the first and second weddings.
Ideas For Planning A Second Wedding: Announcing The Engagement
June 1, 2009 by Francina · Leave a Comment
There are certain subtle differences between the etiquette and ideas for the second wedding compared to the first wedding. This post is the second in a series on planning a second wedding. The first was about announcing your marriage to all children, grandparents and ex-partners involved.
Although this is generally the rule with a first marriage, the parents will probably not be hosting the second engagement party but you may have some friends and family who would like to do it.
It is not etiquette for the couple to be hosting an engagement party but you can have a party and then announce that you are engaged. There is a difference and this will not be a gift-giving event.
Gift registry is quite acceptable for a second marriage. Even though you may not need a lot for your household, many people will feel like celebrating with you by giving you something and they would appreciate the guidance.
The upcoming wedding should be a celebration of your love for each other. Your family and true friends will be happy for you and will certainly be delighted to help you discover new ideas and the correct etiquette for planning your second wedding.
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