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Second Wedding Ideas That Include Children

Francina — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:35:01 +0000

Many people are finding love a second time and are searching for second wedding ideas that include children from previous marriages. The children will most likely be a part of your new married life and it will make them feel special and valued if they are included in some way in the preparations and/or the ceremony and reception.

The thought of you getting married again may be a very unsettling idea to any child. They may feel like they have to take second place and how you handle the situation will to a large extent determine the bond of the family after the wedding. Including children in either the ceremony or the reception is a small token that can really go a long way to pave the way for a happy marriage.

Apart from the regular ways to include children in weddings like inviting them to be a ring bearer, flower girl, best man or maid of honor depending on their age, here are a few different ideas of including children in your second wedding:

Including them in a family vow after the bride and groom’s vows

Include their name or names on the invitations reading something like:
“Samantha Locklear and Jonathan Emery invite you to celebrate their wedding with them and their children Joshua, May and Heather as they become one family.”

If they are old enough, have them read something at the ceremony

One of them can propose a special toast at the reception if they are old enough

Some couples prefer to give a small piece of jewelry to the children. Then after the exchanging of the rings by the bride and groom, there will be an exchanging of the gifts with something like: “This gift is a symbol of our new family and of our love for you.”

If this is too over the top for you, you can simply ask the officiant to bless the new family.

As you can see there are several second wedding ideas that include children. You have to decide which will work for your wedding and which will suit different children’s personalities.

Etiquette And Ideas For Planning A Second Wedding Ceremony

Francina — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 18:11:21 +0000

One of the first choices you will have to make if you are planning your second wedding will be if you want a traditional, religious or civil ceremony. There are many ideas and etiquette for second weddings nowadays and any of these will be acceptable.

In this fourth post in the series on Second Weddings, we’ll focus on The Ceremony. The first was about Planning a Second Wedding, the second on Announcing the Engagement, and the third about The Invitations.

Although the person conducting the ceremony will play an important role in putting the ceremony together you will be able to put your own personal spin on it. Perhaps you do not want a traditional wedding but want to make a few subtle changes. It is often refreshing to change things a bit. It will keep your guests interested and prevent them from becoming bored.

These are some things you will have to think about regarding The Ceremony:

1. Music

2. Literature, poetry or readings from the Bible

3. The processional or entrance of the bride and groom or bridal party

4. Wedding vows (more about this in the next post)

5. Exchanging of rings or gifts

6. Attendants to sign the marriage register

7. Lighting the unity candle or similar ceremony

8. That first kiss

9. The recessional or leaving the church

Remember that this is only a guide. You can mix things up and add your personal touch. It is your wedding and you certainly do not have to repeat what has been done before. Collect etiquette and ideas for second weddings from different sources to provide more options.

Ideas And Etiquette For Planning A Second Wedding: Invitations

Francina — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 14:13:36 +0000

You are getting a second chance to plan a wedding that suits your relationship, personalities and style. Make sure you gather ideas and information about the etiquette for planning a second wedding. This post will cover the details of the invitations.

This is the third post in this series about Second Weddings. The first was about Planning a Second Wedding and the second about Announcing Your Engagement..

Firstly you have to decide who will be invited to the wedding. Of course you can invite anybody you want but the deciding factor will probably be your budget.

I would advise against inviting ex-spouses or former out-laws (just kidding!) even if you are on good terms. Because of your previous ties they may get melancholy and make other guests uncomfortable which may spoil your special day.

Etiquette for announcing a second wedding is pretty much the same as for the first. It is commonly done by the couple nowadays but the parents can make the announcement if they wish.

The norm is to use heavy card stock for formal weddings, verbal invitations for informal events and any of an enormous array of invitations for semi-formal occasions. The same etiquette applies to second weddings.

You can find samples of wording for second wedding invitations hosted by the couple at http://www.idotaketwo.com/invitation_1.html

or if it is hosted by the parents at http://www.idotaketwo.com/invitation_2.html

and if it is hosted by the couple’s children at http://www.idotaketwo.com/invitation_3.html.

Even if you do not want gifts please do not say that on the invitation. This implies that you were expecting gifts. This is not considered correct etiquette but you can convey the message by word of mouth or by mentioning it on your wedding website if you have one. These can be created easily and is a great way to share your whole happy story with others.

As you can see there definitely are some differences between the etiquette for planning the first and second weddings.

Ideas For Planning A Second Wedding: Announcing The Engagement

Francina — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 13:44:20 +0000

There are certain subtle differences between the etiquette and ideas for the second wedding compared to the first wedding. This post is the second in a series on planning a second wedding. The first was about announcing your marriage to all children, grandparents and ex-partners involved.

Next you will want to break the news to all friends and family. You can do this via newspaper, email, by phone or by having an engagement party.

Although this is generally the rule with a first marriage, the parents will probably not be hosting the second engagement party but you may have some friends and family who would like to do it.

It is not etiquette for the couple to be hosting an engagement party but you can have a party and then announce that you are engaged. There is a difference and this will not be a gift-giving event.

Gift registry is quite acceptable for a second marriage. Even though you may not need a lot for your household, many people will feel like celebrating with you by giving you something and they would appreciate the guidance.

The upcoming wedding should be a celebration of your love for each other. Your family and true friends will be happy for you and will certainly be delighted to help you discover new ideas and the correct etiquette for planning your second wedding.